Review by David Lane The book has a strapline Fun ways to help your child develop in the first five years, and that it exactly what the book is about. Other than the Introduction and Final Words, Dr Gummer takes parents through eight stages of development from birth to starting school. In each stage she … Read more
Review by David Lane In reviewing this book for the Guardian, Rebecca Abrams says that the book is “hugely important” which I would endorse, but she commits the sin of omission in saying that it should be “mandatory reading for all parents, teachers and politicians”, as she should have included child care workers of all … Read more
Thankfully for those of us who live alongside, and try to understand, support and care for children, whether as parents, teachers, counsellors, therapists, or social workers, know that there is a range of sources of knowledge and wisdom available to help us. Such resources are over and above our own intuitions, common sense and experience. … Read more
Reflection, appropriation, acceleration, activation, democracy and dialogue. The National Commissioning Conference Training is undoubtedly amongst the best programmes of any conference. The reason is that the programme is put together by those doing the task for those doing the task. It’s the place we come to hear who is doing what. It’s a place of … Read more
Humans are social beings. Historically individual humans are weak, at risk from predators and incapable of surviving for long in nature without others. By being part of a family network; a community or some form of functional group i.e. hunter-gatherer societies, was and still is the safest way to survival. This is thought to be … Read more
Paper given at the Child Care History Network Hinsley Hall, Leeds: 3 July 2015 Introduction The Hinge Factor by Erik Durschmied is about a number of key conflicts which the author believes changed the course of history, such as Agincourt and Waterloo. One of the obvious ones in British history is the Battle of Hastings, … Read more
In my essay, I will initially provide a description of the concept of work, from an etymological and historical point of view, to give a possible explanation of why people work. Then I will refer to relevant human development and career theories to illustrate how people choose their career. In doing so I will draw … Read more
“Lovers are always talking to one another about their love; Friends hardly ever about their Friendship. Lovers are normally face to face, absorbed in each other; Friends, side by side, absorbed in some common interest.” CS Lewis, The Four Loves This distinction between lovers and friends is a memorable one in book rich … Read more
Dear Colleagues, A warm welcome to our new members Every Child leaving Care Matters, Brian Paget, Penumbra Edinburgh, and Jemma Moody of ‘Project Lift’ (www.project-lift.net). Jemma and Project Lift are working with Syrian refugee children in Turkey. Some current context: It has been a very busy month. I attended the International Federation of Social Work … Read more
Dear Readers, A warm welcome to our newest alliance members David Lane ( Independent Child Care Consultant), Elizabeth King ( Principal Psychologist, South Lanarkshire Council) and PACT ( Parents and Children Together), taking our membership to 75 organisations. See attached flyer for our mission, aims, core values statement and current membership list. Please circulate this … Read more
Introduction. I became the Chief Executive of ISP (Integrated Services Programme) in 1999 following a 14 year period as the Principal of the Cotswold Community, a pioneering residential therapeutic community for emotionally unintegrated boys (Tomlinson 2004, Whitwell 1989). ISP was started by foster carers in 1987 and was the first independent fostering provider in the UK. A core … Read more
I wrote following after the untimely death of a young person I cared for recently. I wrote this while still in a state of disbelief, as such it is rather polemic and perhaps a little pessimistic. Some themes developed that I have been reflecting on for some time, that I think represent significant challenges for … Read more
From the moment I heard these words I knew that I must write down the context and sequence of events that led up to them. It was 72 hours ago, and this is the first window of opportunity: a Sunday evening in mid-summer accompanied by the birdsong of thrushes, and a pleasing breeze. This is … Read more
This paper by Victoria Faulkner – Barrett, who is a Therapeutic Care Worker at the Mulberry Bush School, is a final year assignment from our Level 5 Foundation Degree in ‘therapeutic work with children and young people’ accredited by the University of the West of England. Introduction The Mulberry Bush Organisation, a Non-Maintained Residential Special … Read more
Issue 17 of the goodenoughcaring Journal, ‘ The Mulberry Bush Issue’ is now online at http://www.goodenoughcaring.com/the-journal/ This very special issue of the goodenoughcaring Journal is a celebration and recognition of the work of the Mulberry Bush School and Organisation since its founding in 1948 by Barbara Dockar Drysdale. Perhaps more significantly the articles in … Read more
THE CHURCHES CONSERVATION TRUST INVITES YOU TO GO BATS FOR CHURCHES ON INTERNATIONAL BAT NIGHT Introducing Bat Champing – Inspired by the latest trend for champing (camping in a church) Bat Champing Packages from £45 (£25 for under 16s) including breakfast, bat talks, bat detectors and bed in an aisle of a stunning 13th … Read more
Sidmouth FolkWeek 31st July – 7th August 2015 Ear to the past, Eye on the future Phew! That long summer holiday is stretching out ahead of us…. a great chance to recharge the batteries and spend some quality time with your loved ones. If you haven’t already got your family holiday sorted, why not join … Read more
The Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents Report puts blind cord dangers in the spotlight. A report which aims to help save children’s lives by highlighting the dangers of looped blind cords and chains is to be released today (July 9).The 30-page paper, by the four UK Chief Medical Officers and organisations including the Department … Read more
Left-Handers Day: Helping left handed children in a right-handed world View this release online at: http://www.sourcewire.com/news/87957/ Additional media available: image(s) 13 July 2015. If you have a left-handed child, it’s nice to know that left-handers worldwide will unite on 13th August 2015 to mark International Left-Handers Day with a tongue-in-cheek celebration of the many talents … Read more
Parental knowledge gap leaving NHS with £22m early dental care bill Parental knowledge gap is placing “entirely preventable” strain on NHS dental services 1 million children aged 8 and under in the UK have never been to the dentist Over 700,000 children aged 8 and under have had at least one filling costing the … Read more
‘One Goal’ for youth in London Young people across London are set to kick off the summer holidays with the ‘One Goal’ programme, a free year-long sports and creative arts programme organised by nine professional football clubs with a £387,000 grant from L&Q housing association. The One Goal programme’s nine partner clubs—Charlton Athletic, Chelsea, Crystal … Read more
It’s strange, and when I come to think of it very strange, that it never occurred to me in England or Scotland, and that it was only when I was teaching in Penang, Malaysia that the penny dropped. Just a bit of background: since 2002 (that’s not long after the Webmag began) I have been … Read more
Dear readers, As I stated in my recent introduction, our aim is to grow the reach and influence of the webmag. The mission of the National Centre for Therapeutic Residential and Foster Care is: ‘to share knowledge about therapeutic residential and foster care for children and young people, and to support the use of reflective … Read more
Dear readers, I would like to thank Keith White, David Lane, and all the Children Webmag team for their dedicated work to establish and develop it since 2000. At this point of transition I feel it is a great privilege and honour to be taking over as Chair. I hold huge respect for the history … Read more
In this column I want to revisit the subject of attachment and loss not only in the light of my experience and reflection on what those who have lived at Mill Grove have shared with me, and the work of pioneers such as John Bowlby and D.W. Winnicott, but also using some of the insights … Read more
Dear Readers, It is my pleasure and privilege to inform you that Children Webmag is being transferred into new and very capable hands: the National Centre for Therapeutic Residential and Foster Care, located within the Mulberry Bush School. Having been associated with the Webmag from its very early days (March 2000) as a columnist, and … Read more
Yesterday evening one of the young adults who lives at Mill Grove asked me how my day went, and I replied in the usual East End vernacular, “O.K.” At his request I expanded briefly: “As full, varied and rich as every day at Mill Grove”. Which led me to attempt in this article to describe … Read more
It was a strange day not only by normal standards, but also for me, in that I spent it with people whose ages spanned 100 years. Yet on reflection I realised that some of the connections between the generations could not have been closer or clearer. In the afternoon I was with Ben, who is … Read more
For months now in the UK, possibly even years, we have grown accustomed to new revelations about how celebrities like Jimmy Saville and Gary Glitter have abused children and young people. The label for what they have done is usually something sexual, from inappropriate or indecent behaviour to rape. There is revulsion at what they … Read more
In this article I want to describe the nature of two completely different, indeed antithetical cultures that affect the lives of children. Because culture is the air that children breathe, it infiltrates every aspect of their lives, their relationships, the space, the environment in which they grow up. This means that they will and must … Read more
As we enter a new year it is a time to look ahead with hope, and possibly longing. I do so having immersed myself in Jan Swafford’s biography of Beethoven, and try as I might I cannot find a way out of this enticing deep water unaided. So I will try by clutching at a … Read more
In the run up to Christmas this year I visited two members of the Mill Grove family: both of whom are in their late seventies. One was terminally ill and in a hospice, the other had suffered a series of strokes that had left him partly paralysed down the right side of his body. They … Read more
The last chapter of the book, The Growth of Love, is entitled “Villages and Compost Heaps”, and in this column I would like to come back to this theme once again. For the record I last wrote an In Residence column on the subject in June 2002 (It Takes a Village to Raise a Child). … Read more
When I began my research into residential child care at Edinburgh University in 1969 one of the pioneers whose work I discovered and cherished was Barbara Dockar-Drysdale. The place forever associated with her name is the Mulberry Bush School, Standlake, west of Oxford. For some reason, although I gone to see (and indeed stay in) … Read more
In August 2014 the extended family of Mill Grove enjoyed its 39th consecutive holiday in North Wales. Perhaps the anniversary would not have been so significant if I had not read John Buchan’s The Thirty-Nine Steps in recent months. Or perhaps this year’s stay was uniquely special. (Just for any new readers, Mill Grove is … Read more
A Scottish-flavoured batch of articles
Building children’s defences against sexual abuse.
Throwing stones has a long and chequered history. Examples that come to mind immediately include David’s heroic killing of Goliath, the throwing of stones by resistance or revolutionary movement against occupying forces, the use of stones as a method of execution, and the story of how Jesus intervened when a woman was about to be … Read more
What has the public learnt?
The importance of life stories cannot be overstated. By life stories I mean the process in which a child, young person or adult tells in some consecutive or coherent age-appropriate way the narrative of their life to date. And implicit in this is the fact that someone who cares about them unconditionally has listened to … Read more
Over many years of observation it has become apparent to me that children and adults live and act for one of two fundamental reasons: because of choice, or because of an order. (By choice I mean that they act primarily out of free will, not because they have been specifically taught or ordered to undertake … Read more
An account of personal experiences of an adolescent unit.
It is well known that all the nations in the world apart from the USA and Somalia are signed up to the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child 1989. But from the very start there have been those of us who have wondered what it actually means in practice. Countries agree that … Read more
In the last week of March 2014 there were six of us together in North Wales. We called ourselves a work-party, and the purpose of our trip and stay was to attend to some of the repairs and maintenance required by the two houses belonging to Mill Grove in the picturesque seaside village of Borth-y-Gest. … Read more
My very first visit to Hungary was when I touched down in Budapest airport on Monday 17th February 2014. For many other passengers it seemed as if it was just another flight. But for me it was imbued with huge personal significance. The reason is that it was as a nine year old boy on … Read more
The Changes impact of surreptitious change.
Building friendships takes time: the implications for children in care.
The child care profession is struggling against the odds.
The need to open one’s eyes to what is around
What are the constants in our lives? And how do they affect us?
Since the last Newsletter we have published over twenty items – as usual, a very varied mixture of articles and reviews. They are described below. First, an advert for a conference sponsored by the Child Care History Network and Hilfield Priory about Homer Lane and the Little Commonwealth, as it is the centenary this year … Read more
A celebration of the centenary of Homer Lane and the Little Commonwealth
The long-term unexpected rewards of coping with disability
The development of the role of Home School Support Worker and an assessment of its effectiveness in a primary school.
The need for aftercare to enable social inclusion on leaving care
The need to learn from research – and think more deeply
A champion of young children
Aiming to register all home child care workers
Going for over sixty years, and still expanding: a real achievement
Legal Aid for Family Mediation goes Unclaimed as the Courts are Clogged with Cases.
First, a caveat. I am not an expert in the life of Dr Barnardo, so I cannot vouch for the accuracy of the book’s facts or the choice and balance of the material chosen, but it is clear that the author has done a lot of research and has formed his own views on earlier … Read more
Senior Editors: Shaila Brown, Daniel Mills and Ben Morgan This book is another of Dorling Kindersley’s brilliant blockbusters. It is intriguing that, at a time when so much knowledge is available on the web, the quality of hard copy books is improving so much. DK set themselves the task of encompassing the whole of human … Read more
And how sharing it makes life more enjoyable for children
The benefits of building bridges
Interesting findings, often at odds with UK comparisons
Jumping to Conclusions Can Do More Damage than You May Realize
11/09/2013 Mercure Blackburn Dunkenhalgh Hotel Information Never has there been as much media, political and public scrutiny of how we seek to protect vulnerable children from sexual exploitation and abuse, with national attention on investigations such as Savile and Hall. In addition the internet continues to carry an increasing threat of grooming to vulnerable children. … Read more
Don’t drink if you are pregnant.
What children can learn from animals